It's a good read for the young, the old, the experienced and inexperienced. How to Flirt: A Practical Guide, by Marty Westerman This 89-page paperback gives a general all-around approach to flirting.One critic complained that the book seemed too vague, but it seems that it would be a good read for a beginner. This book appears to be an easy read full of 101 quick tips to use to become a better flirt. 101 Ways to Flirt: How to Get More Dates and Meet Your Mate, by Susan Rabin and Barbara Lagowski.